'Demanding' email from bride-to-be goes viral

An anonymous bride-to-be has written a demanding email to her potential bridesmaids that has gone viral on the internet. reported that a tipster sent them this lengthy email that basically says, if you can't follow through on this, this, and this… then you're not a suitable candidate for bridesmaid.

"You all have a big roll in this wedding, so before we continue I'm going to be setting some ground rules and its very important you read and think about everything through before you accept this honor to be a bridesmaid," the anonymous bride-to-be wrote.

In the email, she says bridesmaids have to attend every party and wedding event, and she even details how to respond to emails.

And if you're tight on cash, you're out.

"If money is tight and you cant afford to contribute to say the bachelorette party or wont be able to afford a dress etc then L— and Myself don't have time to deal with that, I'm sorry," she wrote. "This includes flights as well, everyone knows the states where the parties are going to be held so if you wont be able to afford a flight then that means you cant make a party which ultimately means I cant have you as a bridesmaid."

You can read the full email on

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